Letter to Successful Person

      Dearest best friend,

               You probably don’t even know the impact you’ve had on me. I know I don’t tell you this enough, but I really, sincerely admire you.

               In high school, we weren’t really close at all, but you were always that girl everyone knew. Super involved, school spirited, gorgeous, smart, a great Christian, and a shining personality. You’ve always seemed to have a lot going for you, even before I really knew you.

               This summer, we got the chance to actually get to know each other by being leaders of a small group together, and I am so thankful for that time. Even though I’m in Siloam Springs now, while you’re still in Fort Smith, we’ve somehow managed to get even closer since I’ve been at school. I always think of Philippians 1:3, “I thank my God every time I remember you,” because I legitimately do. I thank God for our friendship every day. 

               You don’t even consider yourself to be extremely successful..not in a low self-esteem type way, just in a broken before God, imperfect kind of way...which just makes you that much more successful. You’re one of those people who is great at nearly everything you do, but every rare time you do fail, you get back up. 

               I know you don’t feel like you’re making much of a difference in the small group anymore because our kids are so hard-headed, but just remember they’re only sophomores. If I think about my immaturity and the stupid choices I was making at their age, I understand where they’re coming from. Just remember Galatians 6:9, “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” I know you won’t give up on them. You’re doing a great job, even without me there to help. 

              I just want to say thank you so much for being a great friend. You are “successful” because you seek God’s will above your own. You carry a lot on your shoulders and still manage to be an amazing person and friend. I know I can always come to you with anything, and vice versa. Thanks for basically being in a long-distance relationship with me...our nightly phone calls are my favorite. You’re the only friend from home that I feel like I actually still have a healthy growing friendship with. I love you!

                                                          Emily :)

Thought Questions
1. Explain if "successfulness" in the world's eyes the same as in God's eyes.
2. Does successfulness come from our own efforts?  Explain.